journal 1

After healing for a month or two,...well some go beyond that.., you decide to give it another shot...

you meet a hootie and you know that first initial encounter....boy meets girl.

You put on your best behavior and act wonderful and nice. Obviously, when the initial encounter goes smoothly, which always does, you go on to base two. She makes a concerted effort to maintain her perfect appearance, hair, makeup, nails, clothes. You become extremely attentive, calling regularly, making plans in advance, buy a new deo or fume, wear that shirt etc. Then once you've got her hooked, the same old story happens again. She starts demanding for more than you can give,..she wants to be seen regularly, you start fighting over nothing, you call for 3 units and well run out of what to say, she starts complaining on how you are ever busy, mbu you don't have the, i think its 11th or 7th hour for her.

Ugh you becomes less attentive and soon start wanting more space, more "guy" time, or when she calls and you don't want to talk, you tell her your driving, well any Ugandan that owns a car would understand this.. You don't put in as much effort as you did when you were chasing her.

So you tell your boy and 'girlfriends' about the whole thing after they have noticed she no longer comes around and somehow, they understand and even side with you, and they go on attacking you on how you always get the wrong girls. And the lady friends tell you mbu they are different from the others, which you spend a whole night arguing about till they try to convince you they are different.

After another 'hurtful' break up, you decide to hung around and wait for the perfect break through. You start hanging out with your friends more which is a good thing because you spend less and have more fun. You take all the crystals, Rachaels, Lornas, Sandras out more often and they love it. With time it becomes more of you and the girls. Then disaster kicks in.

Ever had a 'thing' with one of your girlfriends where well you both like each other but your friends, and flirt a lot?!!!, so somehow your flirting gets intense, and you end up doing what you shouldn't have done but you liked it and you keep on doing it and before you know it, you've fallen for each other...then you start dating her because you like her and she is different.. and yes she is different because she already knows what you want and knows all stuff about you.

You first don't tell the others that you guys are doing it so its secretive at first and boy its really fun. You keep on asking yourselves what were we waiting for all along?!!!

So it goes on and on till some of the other friends run into you at her place or when you are out having fun and you all pretend like we just ran into each other...

Then its gets so good that you tell your bestest friend about it and she also tells her bestest friend and they are happy for you but with some caution...then finally its out in the open and wow, they all like it., but some insist that you guys should never break up because they are not ready to take sides.

And its all lovey dovey and you last a year and a half, then it all begins again...she turns into an ordinary girl who loves and wants to be called all the time and wants to be seen regularly and wants you to work less and the 11th hour thing is mentioned again...

so is it you or are they all the same....