They say on average, a man will spend a whole year staring
at a woman before asking her out, or even saying hi. I totally don’t agree with
that. Scenarios where shez a complete stranger a quite simple, you don’t loose
your manhood when your turned down, you loose it when you don’t ask. Schrodinger’s
cat. The hardest thing is falling for someone your introduced to on day one
then waiting for the chance to come, that’s if it ever comes, to ask her out.
Lets take a detour down some memory lane, you run into your
long time friend in vac at your cousins party and there she is with her buddy,
her bestie, with the most beautiful set of teeth, spoken English and has that
magnetic effect that draws you to her like bees on roses that you fail to say
hi or look in her direction. Your buddy introduces her to you and she already
has your heart at hi. Chances are you fall in the category of people with ‘cute’
names that when she sys it out, your perverted mind takes the other serious
meaning. You literally daydream for a minute or two.
You jazz, talk about school, friends, funny thing you might
have crossed paths way back (if hypnosis was real you could pay a million bucks
just to relive that moment)in childhood, maybe if she had seen your serious
looks and light skin back then she would jump on you now…wake up, your
daydreaming again. There’s just something about this baibe that blows your mind,
I think its close to weed and speaking in tounges.
Fast-forward to 15 years later, your engaged, you just asked
her out, last year….
This is going to be like those martin scorcese movies of
back and forth. So buy yourself some big tin of popcorn.
