Wednesday, September 06, 2006

dont get me wrong

Many of you think I can’t handle a relationship. Someone told me that he thinks that I think cheating is ok in a relationship. Well I won’t say its not and won’t say it is.
But ideally, what is just so wrong with it if your not caught.
As far as men are concerned; major percentage believe that "if she (I mean the Haille Berry’s) agrees I will not miss the golden opportunity" but many would wish secretly in order to avoid any clashes, and if I find a gal who knows the fact that I’ am in a relationship but she is ready to fling, how can I basically say NO? I mean am a man.

It is the dream and an expectation of a man, yes, if the relation your in is unsatisfactory, becomes journey to heaven. However, no one can stop imagining the dominant personality of colleague (opposite-sex) even in a Christian surrounding.
Don’t get me wrong here, am speaking ideally. I wish I could mention some of the gals we know here but I wont, it might cause some problems.
There’s a friend ….ugh this one I’ll mention Ed, his hooked to this fine sister and the brother has love…for real if your reading this D,
But( ed it wont hurt) he still gets crashes yet his the most faithful brother I’ve known.
Now put him in a room with the G unit queen and she’s willing to go extra miles, I don’t think he would resist.
Gals on the other hand control their sexual desire in fear of social consequences (how many have I slept with, what will hanny think?), despite inadequate sexual appetite. That’s why most of the time they are upset, restless, tedious and etc; in their life. Research shows that sexual appetite is natural process connected with our body and brain functioning, as the relief is by the process of releasing so controlling is not normal can lead to major psychological diseases such as depression, sickness and lifelessness etc; are enough to invite blood pressure, mental and physical problems etc. which am not ready for at this tender age of mine.

Most people prefer to follow social norms and do not act, who act are either careless or their necessity or desire overcomes the society norms. It does not mean those who follow social norms are honest, they too have the feelings and desires, which they repress in order to avoid facing social consequences, indicates they are emotionally prepared for relation but social boundaries restrict them. Now I don’t know where I would fall.

Every one is honest as long as HE(very sure) or she doesn’t get the opportunity.

10 comments:

~ScotchBiscuits~ said...

so we all think about cheating,we just pretend not to?
we just dont?
we would given a straight up come on?
huh?
enlighten me? I tend to get it all wrong.

crys said...

u bring out the worst in me sometimes. ok, a lot of times. here i am growing into a calm, peaceful, patient, loving being, and then u come along and make me want to scream at u and yell and drum some sense into yo playa-mind. God Bles yo soul. and stay away from Ed, we don't have many like him left.

crys said...

p.s: and is yo blogging to the whole world about how u think cheating is ok supposed to, like, make girls get attracted to u or fall in love with u ar maybe want to marry u someday?

crys said...

p.p.s. u need a life. actually u need Jesus.

crys said...

and STAY AWAY FROM ED AND MY BROTHERS!

crys said...

and that person was ryt. i'm also questioning yo ability to keep a relationship.

muzukulu wa Nkali said...

@scotchbiscuits
yes we all do, as long as the orlando blooms, brad pitts and all hunks exist.
i mean if circumstances were different, you would want to.

muzukulu wa Nkali said...

@crys
this has nothing to do with Jesus, and by the way, have you watched the Davinci code? Jesus uhhmmm.....
Crys, sori to say but your also not sure of what you want, so you dont know what your capable of.
Gals are like the sea, they are so many that would agree with me, so i need not worry.

crys said...

did u mean "me" or 'gals"?

~ScotchBiscuits~ said...

@hani, I think it is risky to assume that I would WANT to.
unless of course you want to stubbornly over assume.
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